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Reflections of a thirty six year old rehabilitated shopaholic



All these years I came to realize that life is too beautiful to waste on trivial pursuit of people and things that deprive one from experiencing inner peace and joy.

A beautiful life is not perfect but we can make the most out of it by choosing to look at a glass of water half full instead of half empty. 

Want to live life to the fullest? 

Choose to honor God in everything that you do. It will be easier to decide on things.

Learn to receive love and reciprocate.

Don't be afraid to let go of relationships and friendships that do not make you a better person. Pray for the people who weigh you down. Allow God to work in you individually and separately then trust Him for restoration at the right time. 

Take care of your health. Your bank account is connected to it. For when you get sick, you will need money and unable to make more money.

Be grateful for all blessings that come your way whether big or small instead of whining over things you don't have.

Read. Engage in meaningful conversations. Listen. Never stop learning.

Look at success as a journey and not a destination. Know your purpose in life,  grow to reach your maximum potential and sow seeds that will benefit others. 

Learn the art of contentment while pursuing goals to enjoy each season  that you are in.

You are beautiful. Luxurious adornments are nice to have but they don't make you a better person. Don't allow your self-esteem to be anchored on them.

Laugh and laugh some more. Even at your own mistake but never at other people's expense or misfortune! 

Pause and pray in all circumstances.

Value time. Nurture relationships. 

Enjoy your work. Love it. It's a privilege to serve and not the other way around. If you're unhappy, just quit instead of tirelessly complaining about things beyond your control.

Share. Don't be cheap.

It's OK to say NO. Don't be a pushover.

If you have nothing good to say, shut up. 

And lastly, sleep soundly.... 


                                                   


















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  1. UnknownNovember 23, 2015 at 9:51 AM

    Che, what a nice reflection! I am really so proud of you! Happy Birthday again!
    Love and miss you!

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    1. LadySharkeeDecember 4, 2015 at 9:49 PM

      Thank you po auntie. I love you! See you and Uncle soon :)

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